A Night of Sadism & Masochism is a chill, community-led impact social for the curious, the veteran spanker and the “I just want to sit here and chill with a snack” folks alike.

A space to meet, mingle, and melt into the night. Where conversations spark, connections form, and play unfolds naturally. Whether you’re here to flirt, explore, observe, or indulge, this is your shared playground.

🤎 What To Expect:

- Lightly vetted attendance

- Arrive at 21:30 for ice breaker & some demos!

- Impact Jam

- A variety of toys and implements will be available for use. Feel free to explore, or - bring your own.

- Community-led discussions & mini sharing circles

- Pockets of free & easy time for play, gentle mingling, or decompressing

- Zero pressure to perform, teach, or play - participate as little or as much as you like

🤎 Types of play:

Impact Play➡️ The sharp sting, the thuddy throb, the slow burn

Electro Play ➡️ Pulses that dance across the skin

Sensual Play ➡️ Tease, torment, tickle and anticipation

Temperature Play ➡️ Heat, cold, and contrast

Psychological Play ➡️ control, surrender, tension, release

Whether you come to watch, to feel, or to lose yourself in the moment. Step in at your own pace.

🤎 Who Is This For:

- Folks who wants a spanking good time (literally and figuratively)

- Newbies (or vanillas) who are curious about impact or just starting out

- Experienced impact tops, bottoms or switches

- Folks who wants to vet new play partners

- Anyone interested in community, conversation, and connection through pain & pleasure

🤎 Dress code:

- Casual, Casually Kinky, up to you! As long as your sexy bits are covered.

- Kinkwear, statement pieces, or as little as you like.

- A DRINK ON THE HOUSE if you come dressed to express!

🤎  Play, Then Unwind

We believe in intentional play.

As the night winds down, we transition into a dedicated wind-down period. 

A space to soften, reconnect, and if you wish, enjoy a drink.

We do not condone drinking and play.

If you choose to drink, you are expected to tap out from all play for the rest of the night.